Friends

We’ve been running (jogging) more than a year now, my friend and I. Mostly three days a week and 30 minutes at a time. My friend is more fit, ten years younger, and a lot faster than I. When we started, I ran my speed and she ran hers. But somewhere along the way, she…

Grasping after Beauty

  How elusive all the most beautiful experiences of life are! When we try to capture them, to possess them, to grasp them to ourselves we cannot. Maybe that’s why we take so many photos and share them with friends whom we hope will have eyes to see. I have been gifted with countless moments…

Vice and Virtue

This morning I was jolted by this paragraph from Erasmo Leiva-Merikakis, also known as Father Simeon, who is a Cistercian monk in Rome: “As long as man is trying to impress God with his own heroics, the heavens will remain shut. When will we understand that God wants nothing at all from us, not even…

Thoughts on Sacred Silence

Silence is so much more than zipping our mouths shut, or ceasing to make noise. I may refuse to speak to someone because I am too angry for words. Or I may mute my voice for fear of being rejected when I tell the truth. Perhaps I just need time to sort out all the…

Leisure

    For years my idea of leisure was skewed. Perhaps I confused it with idleness. The image of a vacation on a tropical beach sipping a cold drink and enjoying the view had lodged itself in my brain as a vacation ideal. Having recently returned from one of the best vacations of my life,…

Our Restless Heart

“Thou hast made us for thyself, O Lord, and our heart is restless until it finds its rest in thee.” This famous quote from St. Augustine of Hippo has long intrigued me. My soul has found rest in God again and again, yet stirs anew with discontent. Today I noticed for the first time the…

Love and Death

We recently prayed with our dear friends through their 33-year-old son, Gary Somers’s, funeral vigil, funeral Mass, luncheon, and interment. His unexpected death was so shocking that it brought an avalanche of grief. The kind that makes you want to gather your own family around and make sure they know how much you love them;…

Truth and Lies; Light and Darkness

Early in our marriage, Doug and I met regularly with a few other couples. We wanted to be accountable to one another for the way we lived the Christian life in our marriage and our family life. We made a solemn promise to put into practice a particular passage of scripture which contains practical rules…

Pondering Poison & Beauty

In my neighborhood, the oleanders are blooming. As I ran past them this morning I questioned, perhaps for the first time, my abhorrence of them. Why should I, a lover of beauty, abhor oleanders? If I were unaware that their leaves, flowers, stems, and roots are toxic, perhaps I would appreciate their beauty. Is the…

Beauty Beyond our Reach

I cannot capture nor possess the beauty in the roses Doug cuts and places in a vase. The camera fails to show the delicacy of petal and palette. I’m limited to breathing sighs of fervent gratitude and it never seems enough!