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Love is Risky. Love Anyway.
We started out completely lost in each other. I only knew his love for me. It was as if nothing else existed. Sometimes it seemed my heart would explode at the sound of his voice or the sight of his loving gaze. And even though I’d been warned the feelings would fade, I set aside…
65 and Retiring
Reflections on Goodbyes and Pachangas It’s the unsaid “goodbyes” that hurt most. We moved and people disappeared from my world when we started over in a new town, a new church, a new school. Yet, the disappeared haunt my memory in the vague forms and incomplete sketches imagined by my younger self. My music teacher,…
The Prayer of Trust
In preparation for a talk on prayer for catechetical leaders in our diocese, I visited the adoration chapel at the parish where I work. I brought a journal full of notes from a recent retreat along with my favorite spiritual book with sound advice about prayer. I leafed through these, but instead of focusing, my…
Lifelong Married Love
I was 19 and he was 22 when on Monday, February 16, 1976 he drove me to Phoenix for a Bill Gaither Concert. Three friends from his church rode in the backseat of his parents’ car for the 100 mile trip. The front seat was our own private world. At the concert , his friend…
Thoughts on Flying to Chicago
The high in Phoenix today predicted to be 70°. Perfectly beautiful sunny weather. In a few days I’ll board a plane for Chicago where 6° the forecasted high. The lows are in the negative teens. I’ve never been to Chicago in the winter, but I am packing layers and layers of warmth. It still amazes…
Grasping after Beauty
How elusive all the most beautiful experiences of life are! When we try to capture them, to possess them, to grasp them to ourselves we cannot. Maybe that’s why we take so many photos and share them with friends whom we hope will have eyes to see. I have been gifted with countless moments…
Vice and Virtue
This morning I was jolted by this paragraph from Erasmo Leiva-Merikakis, also known as Father Simeon, who is a Cistercian monk in Rome: “As long as man is trying to impress God with his own heroics, the heavens will remain shut. When will we understand that God wants nothing at all from us, not even…
Thoughts on Sacred Silence
Silence is so much more than zipping our mouths shut, or ceasing to make noise. I may refuse to speak to someone because I am too angry for words. Or I may mute my voice for fear of being rejected when I tell the truth. Perhaps I just need time to sort out all the…